Archive for January, 2009

Backyard Dinner With Good Friends.

Friday, January 30th, 2009

We had our good friends – the Lams over for dinner tonight. It will be a very long time before we can have such dinner with them again.  They are moving to Europe for a while because of work.  And so, the kids won’t be able to play with each other for a long time!  Calvin will be very sad to see Alison go and I am sure he will miss her.  These 2 have grown up together and they play really really well together.  There’s hardly any fighting between them when they play.

They played ball and entertained themselves with self-invented games using things they found at the yard.  We hardly had to supervise them.  Even Amy and Athan joined in the fun.   There was no drama at all.  They had fun. That’s the most important!

The kids ate pretty well too.  I made a roast chicken, potato wedges and hummus dip.  We even ordered a couple of pizzas to add to the feast.  It was a good dinner.  The adults had time to catch up after dinner because the kids played so well together.  We talked about so many things — work, family kids ….. I will miss such times with our friends.

Athan ate really well and he seemed to like the hummus dip — it was the first time he tried hummus.  Our friends just could not get over how much Athan ate!  This boy ate some roast chicken, pizzas and he really enjoyed dipping the potato wedges in the hummus.   He just sat in his highchair and ate and ate — without a sound! I have to quickly add that Mr Athan does not always behave at meal time.  Sometimes he does play up and refuse to eat.  He was just having a good day this evening.

This is Amy making a funny face at me when I asked her to give me a smile.  She knew I was taking a picture of her and she just wanted to be cheeky. 🙂 This little girl has grown a lot too.  She is much more mature and settled now.  She used to cry and fuss at meal times at our home when she was younger.  Her parents, especially her mum could not have their dinner at peace. Those were the days … the children are all growing up very quickly.

We will surely miss our friends, but I am sure we will be in touch.  Thanks to the internet! Here’s wishing our friends a safe trip to their destination and a blessed year ahead.  God bless.

Backyard Pool.

Wednesday, January 28th, 2009

Robin finally set up the inflatable pool at our backyard this afternoon. We were given the family size pool last year but because it was very difficult to fully inflate the pool, we did not set it up until today when we manage to borrow a powerful air pump from our neighbours.

The boys had a ball in the pool with their father.  They simply loved to play with water.  They splashed water at each other, the father pretended to be a shark and then a crocodile to scare the boys, but the boys just went ahead and attack the father!  They had so much fun.  I think they stayed in there for almost an hour! As for me, I took the time to quickly give my family in Singapore a phone call to catch up with them.

It was nap time after the water play and both boys went down for 2 hours!!  How good was that?

Happy Chinese New Year!

Monday, January 26th, 2009

Today is the first day of Chinese New Year, and we would like to wish all our chinese friends a very happy new year — Xin Nian Kuai Le, Wan Shi Ru Yi!

It so happen that today is Australia Day over here and so today is a public holiday for us!  We did not do much except for having some friends over for a steamboat dinner.  The company was great, the kids played well and we enjoyed the time chatting while cooking the food in the hot soup. In fact, we already had a steamboat dinner last night for reunion dinner.

We prepared so much food that we even had enough for another round of steamboat dinner today.  I have to confess that I deliberately prepared more so that we could invite more friends over to have a meal with us. We invited some Australian friends to have the meal with us and they found the whole concept of having to cook the food themselves quite interesting.  They liked it.

Chinese New Year celebrations here in Perth is quite limited, I would say. Perhaps we should plan to return to Singapore or Robin’s hometown in Kuching in the near future for Chinese New Year, so that the boys can experience the celebrations.  Perhaps.

Birthday.

Friday, January 23rd, 2009

The boys were invited to a 4-year-old birthday party this morning.   The party was at a foreshsore quite near to our home.  The boys were very excited when I announced we were going to a birthday party!  I only annouce what we will be doing at the last minute  because if I let the cat out of the bag too early, our Mr Calvin will keep on harrassing me and asking me thousands of questions for the whole day! I have learnt my lesson.

When we arrived, it was almost time to cut the cake.  Both boys love eating cake and so they were quite happy to join in the singing and cheering.  They were each given a piece of cake and that has made them really happy.  The cake even had chocloate fingers on it and that has made them even happier! 🙂

They had a play time at the playground after the cake.  Unfortunately, Calvin did not have much chance to play with his friend, the birthday boy as this boy was pre-occupied with his other friends.  Somehow, Calvin could not fit into the group – or rather the other boys could not accept him into the group.  He was a little upset, but was quickly settled when he realised playing with his little brother was not that bad after all. 🙂

The highlight of the birthday was of course the lolly bag.  The boys were each given a bag that was filled with lollies.  Their eyes almost popped out of their heads when they saw so much lollies and they wanted to eat them all!  I had to control them which wasn’t easy.

When we got home, Robin asked Calvin if he enjoyed the birthday party.  The boy answered “yeah, I liked the chocolate”!

Singapore Trip (Part I).

Tuesday, January 20th, 2009

We spent a good 3 weeks in Singapore last year from 15/12/08 – 4/1/09.  I get to spend a lot of time with my family, especially with mum and dad.  We went over to my parents’ place for lunches and dinners almost everyday.  I think my parents love the boys!  My mum just could not get over how Athan ate — he *devoured* a whole bowl of soup all by himself and he ate vegetables!  To mum, this is quite *unbelieveable* for she has not seen a kid who ate so well at this age.  Well, Mr Athan did not always behave at meal times, but for most times, he ate really well.  I guess mum loved it when the boy enjoyed her cooking. By the way, I have to say that my mum made the best soup in the whole world — yup, I am biased! 🙂

Calvin was my dad’s favourite.  Dad kept telling us what a good kid Calvin was and how smart he was and ….. well, I believe my dad was very happy to see the boys and somehow, the boys took to him without any problem.  Calvin went to give my dad a great big hug when we first arrived and he even asked if “gong gong” (grandfather) was well.  Of course that has made my dad very happy. Even Mr Athan — the fiesty little man who refused to let anyone carry, went and shook my dad’s hand when my dad held his hand out to him! Amazing.

We spent Christmas and New Year with my family.  We had a great party at my parents’ on Christmas eve.  The kids — all 6 grandchildren, had really made the whole house bursting with joy and laughter.  We have all enjoyed the food and company very much.  The children played really well together. They had so many Christmas presents to open — that had really made them excited and happy.

My sisters and I had time to catch up too.  There’s always so much to talk about and so much to laugh about when we are together.  I really miss them.  They are a great support and encouragement to me. I really wish they are here with me.  In fact, they have put in so much effort to make our stay both enjoyable and comfortable.  I am so blessed to have such good sisters.

We managed to catch up with many friends who are living and working in Singapore too.  It was good to see them again and to know that everyone is doing great.  One of them absolutely loved Calvin!  (you know who you are … :)) Thanks for all the treats, guys.  We are missing all the local food over here!  Just the other night, Robin was telling me that he wanted to eat durian and fried carrot cake for supper!

As for the flight to Singapore … well, it was very challenging.  Mr Athan was very unsettled for a few reasons.  First, he did not have a seat and so he had to be on our lap all the time.  He was not happy with that especially when his brother had a seat and had special kids meal and could watch movies on the little screen.  He screamed his head off when we told he had to sit on our lap.  He kicked, he arched his back and cried and screamed ….. it was very difficult to appease him.  What made it worse was that he could not move around in the plane and had to be confined to the little leg room we had.  I felt sorry for him as well as those sitting around us.  It took a while for him to accept the situation. The flight home was slighly better, but he was still quite hard to handle.  Oh well, I sure hope he will behave better on our next trip — at least he will have his own seat then.

Sunday Boys.

Sunday, January 18th, 2009

It was fruit for afternoon tea after their afternoon nap.

 

Then it was playing blocks time. Calvin really loves playing with his “monster” blocks lately. He gets endless enjoyment from building planes, towers, etc and anything according to his own imagination. He can sit down and play with the blocks for a very long time.  Athan is beginning to show some interest in blocks lately, thanks to Calvin. But his *favourite* past time is still to destroy his brother’s creations (which drives Calvin up the wall complete with the loudest screaming possible …..).

 

And, before dinner, it was colouring time. Calvin has improved a lot when it comes to colouring.  In fact, he was the one who wanted to do colouring-in for his Wall-E book. He is holding his pencil better and able to colour within the line better.  He still has a lot of room to improve, but I have to say he has made big steps in terms of being willing to sit down and colour or draw for more then 2 minutes. Athan just followed his “gor gor” along although he was more interested in playing with the colour pencils. 🙂

The boys had quite a nice afternoon doing things together. They are very aware of each other’s presence now, especially for Athan.  He asks for Calvin whenever he doesn’t see his brother around. He is quite sweet too — he always take an extra piece of biscuit for Calvin when he is being offered one.

I really hope they will grow up to be good brothers.

Evening Musings.

Friday, January 16th, 2009

The other evening, Robin came out of the boys’ room, quite amused, after putting them to bed.  He could not wait to share with me his conversation with Athan.

So, he was having a little lie-down with Calvin on the mattress after putting the boys to bed (which I strongly discourage). Mr Athan became restless and upset and called for attention when he saw his papa and “gor gor” lying on the mattress.  He wanted a share on the mattress too!  This was when the interesting conversation between the father and son started.  It went like this:

Robin: di (short for little brother in mandarin), ni ku shen me (what are you crying about)?

Athan:  bao di di, ba ba (carry little brother (referring to himself), papa)!

Robin: bu yao bao, ni yao shui jiao le (no carry, you need to sleep now).

Athan: di yao xia, shui ba ba “gor gor” chuang (athan wants to come down, sleep with papa on big brother (Calvin) bed)!

Robin: bu yao, ni hen chao de, hen duo hua jiang. (no, you are very noisy, talk too much)

Athan: di xia! bao di di! di yao! (athan down, carry athan! athan wants!)

and he kept repeating himself …

Robin: hao, wo bao ni xia lai, ni bu ke yi jiang hua, yao shui jiao, ok? ( alright, i’ll take you down, but you can’t talk, have to sleep, ok?)

Athan: hmm (and nodded his head).

Robin: ru guo ni jiang hua, ni jiu hui qu shui ni zi ji de chuang, ok? (if you talk, you go back to your own bed, ok?)

Athan: (looked at his father with his most innocent look) di bu hui de!  (athan won’t!)

Robin found this amusing as he did not expect Athan to be able to answer him this way.  He really wanted to laugh at that moment. He seldom has such long conversation with Athan and so he has no idea how much the boy’s speech has progressed. He was quite surprised by Athan’s ability to hold the conversation and how he could answer in a logical way. Anyhow, guess whether the boy kept quiet and slept with the boys?

Of course not!  He could not stop talking and laughing and he even poked his “gor gor”!  So, he was sent right back into his own cot.  Of course he protested, but the father just stuck to his word. Thankfully, the protest wasn’t long.  The boy was asleep in no time.

Still talking about Mr Athan ….

We bought a single futon mattress for Calvin to replace his very old double mattress.  This is part of the changes we are going through.

Anyway, I brought the mattress home the other day and left it half folded lying on the floor in the front living area. Robin and I were in the boys’ room clearing out the mess to make space for the new mattress. When we came out of the room, we found Mr Athan happily sitting on top of the mattress playing his blocks! He has climbed up onto the half-folded mattress (about 12 inch) all by himself and he must have found it very fun for, when he saw us, he slid down from the mattress and climbed up again.  He thought it was a game. 🙂 We had a little trouble trying to get him to come down. When we asked him to come down, he said to us “bu yao xia, di yao zhuo zhuo de!” (no coming down, athan wants to sit!)

Well, this is the fun part of parenting! At least you get a taste of how little ones perceive their surroundings. 🙂

Changes.

Tuesday, January 13th, 2009

The new year has brought about quite a number of changes in our home. For starters, we have decided to put the boys in the same room.  Yup, you heard me right, the boys are now sleeping in the same room!

It was Robin’s idea.  I’m more like — “err… are you sure Athan is ready?  He talks too much! ” But Robin has always been optimistic about the brothers sharing the same room.  We actually let the boys slept in the same room while in Singapore and it turned our OK after a few nights, so the father thought we should continue and let them get used to the idea. So now, Athan’s cot is in Calvin’s room.  Mr Athan is still in his cot to prevent him from running around during sleep time and wake up  time.  Right now, Calvin’s room is quite cluttered with the cot and books and toys and his mattress all over the place ….. I get stressed out just by looking at it!  However, my very encouraging husband always look at things on the bright side and told me that everything will look good when we have re-arranged the furniture and toys properly. Just be patient, he told me.

Talking about re-arranging the furniture, we really are moving things around in the house.  Athan’s room is now free and the plan is to make it into a study/guest room. The baby furniture in the room will be given away and junk cleared. We are also making the front room (used to be Robin’s work area) into the boys’ play area.  We will have to get new storage system to store their toys.  Looks like a trip to IKEA is imminent. But first, I need to sort out the toys.  They have so much.  We are so blessed, really.

So, as you can imagine, our house is in a mess right now.  We still have quite a lot to do before the house is back in shape again.  I’ll try to take some pictures and post them here so that you get an idea of the outcome of the re-arrangements. I wish I have all these changes done like yesterday!!  But I know these things take time and I need to have patient.

I am back to work today.  It has been quite a slow moving day as many of my work mates are still on holidays and so is my boss.  I felt pretty slack, I have to admit.  It was good though, at least I could clear all my paper work for the new year and tidy up my office. I am looking forward to new challenges and learning new things.

The boys are slowly getting used to me going back to work.  Calvin has been protesting slightly to go to his day care since we returned from our trip. We thought it could be due to the long break or that he has outgrown day care (?). We are not sure why as he himself could not give an explicit reason.  Thankfully his protest was not strong.  He usually gives in after a short pep talk. He will soon start kindy at our local school in early February and Athan will also start going to day care at around the same time.   So many changes!  I get a little over-whelmed just by thinking about it.  I’m worried that the boys can’t adjust etc etc, but I do know that I have to let them go and be there for them when they need me.  Not easy being a parent!

Changes can be good.  We need changes from time to time.  Let’s hope everything will fall into place in due time.

Weekend Boys.

Sunday, January 11th, 2009

We have been having very hot days here in Perth since we returned from our trip. I kept the boys at home with the air cooler turned on most of time to keep them cool.  Well, I must admit that I’m too lazy to go out and do anything in such heat.

These 2 monkeys have been coping quite well with the heat and they seemed to be playing well together in the house.  Tomorrow promises to be a much cooler day, so we might go to the park.  They will surely love it.

Last Day At Kindy.

Wednesday, January 7th, 2009

Calvin had a very busy week before we left for Singapore. He had Christmas parties at day care and kindy one after another, then there was his cousin’s birthday party to attend and our church’s family Christmas evening that was on the eve of our departure.

I was so glad that Calvin could attend the last day of his kindy before we left. It was a Christmas celebration as well as *graduation* for the kids. We were told to arrive early and to bring a plate of sweets to share. I brought Athan along.

The kindy kids were sat neatly in a row right in front of us.  They had a few songs to sing to us!  Those were the songs that they have learnt throughout the year.  They were so cute!

It was great to see Calvin singing together with his classmates and enjoying himself.  Watching him doing the actions together with the others and seeing him listening (and following) the teacher’s instructions have really made me proud. What made me even prouder of my little guy was when his teacher presented him with his folio and the Christmas gift that he has made for our family.

His folio contained all the work that he has done throughout the year.  He has been taught many many things! I was so impressed. I have to say that he did not put in much effort in his drawings to express himself.  A chat with his teacher revealed that Calvin has been difficult when it comes to doing craft or drawing.  He showed protest. It took the teachers a lot of patience to persuade him and to sit down with him to complete his art work.  The good news is that Calvin has shown great progress for the last few weeks before the term ended.  He participated at craft time without protest and has shown interest in drawing and making art pieces. I’m very very thankful to the teachers.  They have done a great job with Calvin.

After the singing and presentation of folios was party time! There was a huge spread of food at the backyard of the school.  Athan suddenly became so alive! The photo on the left showed the little fellow pointing to the food and telling me he wanted a share. How can I refuse him, right? 🙂

The photo above showed the boys stuffing their faces with all the *forbidden* food at home. :)  Athan absolutely loved the pop corns!

I have been telling Calvin that he won’t be going to the 3-year-old kindy anymore and that he won’t be seeing his friends there anymore.  He kept asking why and I tried to explain to him that he’s four years old now and so it is time to go to a big school.  He seems excited at the thought although I’m not sure whether he really understands what I’m trying to tell him.  I know he will miss his friends, but I also know that he will make new friends very soon.